Author Archives: Christopher Lai

Everything is fast-paced these days. A guy meets a chick, he gets her number, they exchange a few messages and by the weekend… they go out for drinks. After a few rounds, he flirts intensely with her and she flirts … Continue reading →

Society forces us to be macho these days. So, we’ll wear our pants below our waist, wear our cap backways, listen to Rick Ross, drink beer while watching football. In fact, we are so macho these days, if we’re in … Continue reading →

  1. Texts her throughout the day. You just met your boo and you have a good feeling, like, a really good feeling. You can’t stop thinking about her. You’ll text her while you’re in class, you’ll text her while you’re … Continue reading →

Women are complex beings. If you understand that concept, then you’ll understand women. Every guy would like to believe that a woman has never faked an orgasm with him before—that he’s the best lover she’s ever had—but the truth is, … Continue reading →

Every girl — Every. Single. One — wants to be kissed just right. They want that kiss that will blow their minds; that kiss that will make their toes curl. Guys, think of the kiss as a prelude to things … Continue reading →

Chances are, at some stage during your work life, you’ll come across the office pervert. He’s the guy that all the women try to avoid. The sleaze. The one who will watch porn on company time. The one with the … Continue reading →

This piece was first published on Thought Catalog, on July 29, 2015. 1.  Keep falling for each other. Act like you’re at the top of Rick’s Cafe on a cliff in Jamaica, nervously peeping over the edge, and jump off. Fall … Continue reading →

Listen up ladies. We are under a lot pressure to perform in bed, more than you can ever imagine. And the pressure intensifies when it’s the first night we’re making love to you. Trust me, we don’t want to disappoint, … Continue reading →

As a man, you have to be macho all the time; there are no day-offs. Because when you inevitably find yourself in certain situations, you have to be able to man up. For example, when you’re at the club and … Continue reading →

As a girl increases in age, the numbers on her scale tend to follow. Sometimes it’s barely noticeable, other times it’s more obvious. Getting old sucks. The reality is this… chances are, the body she had in her 20s will … Continue reading →