Author Archives: Christopher Lai

I was recently flirting with someone in their 30s. It was her birthday and, somewhere in the mix, I asked if she was“24 or 25” today… she blushed, laughed and said “23”. Clearly, women find it complimentary when people assume … Continue reading →

Nowadays… a guy will meet a girl, exchange numbers, send flirtatious messages, go on several dates, ask her to be his girlfriend… and in a few months, they’ll say they’re in love. Like, they’ll literally spend all night talking on … Continue reading →

Santa, my homie … what’s up bro? It’s been a while since I wrote you… 22 years to be exact. Not that I was upset about the remote control car you gave me back in 95, but all my friends … Continue reading →

Everything is fast-paced these days. A guy meets a chick, he gets her number, they exchange a few messages and by the weekend… they go out for drinks. After a few rounds, he flirts intensely with her and she flirts … Continue reading →

Society forces us to be macho these days. So, we’ll wear our pants below our waist, wear our cap backways, listen to Rick Ross, drink beer while watching football. In fact, we are so macho these days, if we’re in … Continue reading →

  1. Texts her throughout the day. You just met your boo and you have a good feeling, like, a really good feeling. You can’t stop thinking about her. You’ll text her while you’re in class, you’ll text her while you’re … Continue reading →

Women are complex beings. If you understand that concept, then you’ll understand women. Every guy would like to believe that a woman has never faked an orgasm with him before—that he’s the best lover she’s ever had—but the truth is, … Continue reading →