Author Archives: Christopher Lai

About Christopher Lai

Christopher Lai is an award winning Jamaican relationship blogger and author. His articles have appeared in The Huffington Post and Thought Catalog.

You have a choice. You always have choice. You don’t have to stay. You can’t be making a concerted effort in your relationship, while your partner goes through the motions. It’s crazy to give someone your heart, and in return get treated like … Continue reading

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Why Every Man Secretly Wants A ‘Cool’ Girlfriend

We love pretty girls – with a nice body. We also love intelligent women – humble, classy, witty, and driven. And all that stuff is great, but when we want to take it to the next level, we want a … Continue reading

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To The Girl Who Has A Hard Time Trusting People Because She’s Been Broken

Let me undo every bad memory. Every single one. I know it’s difficult for you to trust again, so let me start by being patient. Let’s work on it. You need time to heal. Let’s start off with the little … Continue reading

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An Open Letter To The Single Girl Who’s Focused On Her Career

Stay the course. It’s sexy to see a girl chase her dreams. I get it – I know you’re approaching thirty (or forty) and worried about getting married, having a family and the whole shebang. And if I’m being totally … Continue reading

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When We Get Married, Divorce Is Not An Option

Hell No. You must be joking. I gave you my word. I stood nervously in front of our families and our friends and promised to love you “till death do us part”. I meant every word in my vow and … Continue reading

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Why The ‘Bad Boy’ Is Now The New ‘Prince Charming’

Have you ever noticed that women are always complaining that “they can’t find a nice guy” and when they FINALLY meet one they lose interest in him because “he’s too nice”? LOL. There’s no easy way to say this– but women … Continue reading

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I Promise You Are Most Beautiful Without Any Makeup

Our first few dates will appear a bit staged. You’ll choose a nice outfit, take time to apply your make-up and get your hair done. You’ll look stunning and I’ll be impressed. I’ll pick you up at eight and we’ll go somewhere … Continue reading

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