Author Archives: Christopher Lai

You have a choice. You always have choice. You don’t have to stay. You can’t be making a concerted effort in your relationship, while your partner goes through the motions. It’s crazy to give someone your heart, and in return get treated like … Continue reading →

We love pretty girls – with a nice body. We also love intelligent women – humble, classy, witty, and driven. And all that stuff is great, but when we want to take it to the next level, we want a … Continue reading →

Let me undo every bad memory. Every single one. I know it’s difficult for you to trust again, so let me start by being patient. Let’s work on it. You need time to heal. Let’s start off with the little … Continue reading →

Stay the course. It’s sexy to see a girl chase her dreams. I get it – I know you’re approaching thirty (or forty) and worried about getting married, having a family and the whole shebang. And if I’m being totally … Continue reading →

Hell No. You must be joking. I gave you my word. I stood nervously in front of our families and our friends and promised to love you “till death do us part”. I meant every word in my vow and … Continue reading →

Have you ever noticed that women are always complaining that “they can’t find a nice guy” and when they FINALLY meet one they lose interest in him because “he’s too nice”? LOL. There’s no easy way to say this– but women … Continue reading →

Our first few dates will appear a bit staged. You’ll choose a nice outfit, take time to apply your make-up and get your hair done. You’ll look stunning and I’ll be impressed. I’ll pick you up at eight and we’ll go somewhere … Continue reading →

I was recently flirting with someone in their 30s. It was her birthday and, somewhere in the mix, I asked if she was“24 or 25” today… she blushed, laughed and said “23”. Clearly, women find it complimentary when people assume … Continue reading →

Nowadays… a guy will meet a girl, exchange numbers, send flirtatious messages, go on several dates, ask her to be his girlfriend… and in a few months, they’ll say they’re in love. Like, they’ll literally spend all night talking on … Continue reading →

Santa, my homie … what’s up bro? It’s been a while since I wrote you… 22 years to be exact. Not that I was upset about the remote control car you gave me back in 95, but all my friends … Continue reading →