Author Archives: Christopher Lai

About Christopher Lai

Christopher Lai is an award winning Jamaican relationship blogger and author. His articles have appeared in The Huffington Post and Thought Catalog.

An Open Letter To The Single Girl Who’s Focused On Her Career

Stay the course. It’s sexy to see a girl chase her dreams. I get it – I know you’re approaching thirty (or forty) and worried about getting married, having a family and the whole shebang. And if I’m being totally … Continue reading

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When We Get Married, Divorce Is Not An Option

Hell No. You must be joking. I gave you my word. I stood nervously in front of our families and our friends and promised to love you “till death do us part”. I meant every word in my vow and … Continue reading

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Why The ‘Bad Boy’ Is Now The New ‘Prince Charming’

Have you ever noticed that women are always complaining that “they can’t find a nice guy” and when they FINALLY meet one they lose interest in him because “he’s too nice”? LOL. There’s no easy way to say this– but women … Continue reading

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I Promise You Are Most Beautiful Without Any Makeup

Our first few dates will appear a bit staged. You’ll choose a nice outfit, take time to apply your make-up and get your hair done. You’ll look stunning and I’ll be impressed. I’ll pick you up at eight and we’ll go somewhere … Continue reading

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Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Tell The Truth About Their Age

I was recently flirting with someone in their 30s. It was her birthday and, somewhere in the mix, I asked if she was“24 or 25” today… she blushed, laughed and said “23”. Clearly, women find it complimentary when people assume … Continue reading

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Couples Are Too Quick To Say “I Love You” And It’s Causing All Kinds of Problems

Nowadays… a guy will meet a girl, exchange numbers, send flirtatious messages, go on several dates, ask her to be his girlfriend… and in a few months, they’ll say they’re in love. Like, they’ll literally spend all night talking on … Continue reading

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An Open Letter To My Homie, Santa Claus: Can You Introduce Me To A Good Girl?

Santa, my homie … what’s up bro? It’s been a while since I wrote you… 22 years to be exact. Not that I was upset about the remote control car you gave me back in 95, but all my friends … Continue reading

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