Every girl — Every. Single. One — wants to be kissed just right. They want that kiss that will blow their minds; that kiss that will make their toes curl. Guys, think of the kiss as a prelude to things to come… if you do it right, then you’ll get to the second base. But if you do it wrong… well, that can just ruin a night, not to mention puncture your ego. You need to understand that different situations call for different kinds of kisses… you need to know this, because, again, failure to, can ruin your chances forever.

1. The Soft, Gentle Kiss

You’re with a girl you really like and you know that she wants to be kissed just as much as you want to kiss her. You’ve been waiting for this moment. You want to take it slow, this girl is special. Take a mental step back and relax, the last thing you want is to appear too eager… too hungry. There are times when being hungry is ideal but if you read the situation wrong, you’re going to end up getting the side of her cheek. On the way to her home after a date, when you pull up in the driveway… before she gets out of the car, slowly lean in, and kiss her ever so softly … no tongue. Don’t be a puppy and slobber all over her face.

2. The Urgent Kiss

Sometimes the soft gentle kiss just won’t cut it. You’re at a get together and all evening you’ve been craving some alone time. When she gets up to replenish her drink, excuse yourself to use the bathroom… or wherever… and head to the kitchen instead. Tap her on her shoulder and as she turns around to face you, take her by the shoulders and shove her against the fridge. Mould your body into hers… Now is the time to kiss her deeply and quickly — leave her gasping for breath. Note, this doesn’t mean shoving your tongue down her throat and choking the life out of her!

3. The Hungry Kiss

You really want this girl and she wants you. Having dinner at the fancy restaurant with her knees brushing against yours all evening, and she touching your arm was enough foreplay. Now she’s at your place and you want her. Pull her towards you, fitting your body into hers and hungrily devour her lips… deepening the kiss as your tongues play.

4. The ‘After’ Kiss

You’ve both just had a wild night and now she’s lying on top of you, satiated. Hold her cheeks between your palms and guide her face down to yours. Tenderly kiss her on the forehead, on the nose… nibble on her lower lip, then tease her. Things may just heat up again.

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