4 Contradictory Things Every Woman Wants

Contradiction 1 

She wants you to slowly unbutton her shirt while you leave a trail of kisses from her lips down to her breasts. As you unhook her bra, remove the rest of her clothes and gently peel away her undies… she shudders in anticipation.

Romance is great but sometimes you need to change it up a bit. Quickies will ignite sexual passion. So, when you find yourself in the moment… Kiss her passionately, unzip your pants and take care of business. You don’t have time to get undressed… she wants it right there and then. She wants you to be aggressive… she wants you to turn her around and spank her ass.

Contradiction 2

It’s natural for her to feel vulnerable talking about really sensitive issues. When she begins to explain the most touching issue… her eyes will become filled with tears and she’ll begin to sob. But as you guide her head towards your chest, put your arms around her and let her know that “everything will be okay”… she will begin to feel a little better.

There are times when she has a lot on her mind but she prefers to process her thoughts alone. She doesn’t want your opinion, she doesn’t want you to console her. She’s independent and can figure out things on her own. When she’s good and ready, she’ll include you. So, give her some space.

Contradiction 3

When she gives you the silent treatment… you know you’re in trouble. She expects you to read her mind and figure out where you went wrong. Hopefully, you’ll find a clue when you search your phone. But then again, hopefully you don’t find a clue because that would mean you’ve been messaging another girl and then you’re in for some serious shit. Maybe, it’s something simple?… Who knows? Anyway, figure it out soon because she expects you to.

On the flip side, sometimes, when she gives you the silent treatment… she knows that you will never figure it out. So, while you’re a scurrying around the place, trying to figure out what you did wrong… she’s appears to be calm … when in fact… she’s boiling up inside, waiting for the right moment to unleash. Brace yourself!

Silent treatment is confusing, contradicting and annoying… ain’t nobody understand that shit.  

Contradiction 4

It’s cool when you take charge of the relationship and plan a nice outing with your girl. She’ll appreciate the effort you made… and who doesn’t enjoy a good time.

It’s even cooler when, in the middle of good vibe, you randomly suggest that you take a trip somewhere. And a few minutes later, you’re in a car, on the way to somewhere fun. It can’t hurt to pick up a few beers along the way, it can’t hurt to sing at the top of your voice when a catchy song is on, it can’t hurt to be spontaneous.

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