5 Things A Man Should Talk To His Girl About

1.  Sex

It’s natural to feel that you’re a stallion in bed. After all, you did an outstanding job – you lasted an hour and she made all kinds of noises. But did you give her breasts enough attention? You probably fondled her nipples during foreplay but forgot about them when it was crunch time. And it’s a pity because it may have resulted in a bigger orgasm for her.

Every woman’s body is different and you should know the desired areas that will provide extra stimulation. Through experiencing her body, you’ll be able to sense what makes her tingle but to really know her most sensitive spots… you can ask her.

2.  Her career goals

A woman’s career path is very important to her. If she’s progressing in her career… she may be exposed to bitterness at the workplace (yes – gender discrimination still exists). If she’s not progressing in her career… she may become very frustrated.

You may not be in a position to really help, but you can make an effort to listen to her concerns because you understand the importance of being able to provide useful feedback. Who knows… your unconditional support may be the catalyst she needs to keep pushing.

3.  Her future plans (marriage, children etc.)

Sometimes it’s difficult to approach this topic without coming off as being clingy. But if you’re serious about this girl, it’s good to know her plans for the future. Perhaps you can initiate a light-hearted conversation with her and then broach the all-important subject.

4.  How to keep the spark alive

We tend to get complacent in our relationship. It’s not that we lose interest (or love the person any less) but it’s natural to become comfortable. These days, when you have sex, she no longer feels sexy. When she wears her favourite dress, she no longer feels beautiful.

It’s important to communicate with your lady love, to be reminded of the things you need to do to keep the sparks alive. You see, if you ever lose the passion in your relationship, then it’s like watching a football game, and your team is losing by 5-0.

I recently met a very old couple (in their 70s). They were all bubbly and cute. When I asked the man “How do you remain in love for so long?” … he responded “As long as I’m able to kiss my wife, I will do so with meaning” (Then he proceeded to show me what he meant… and I was scratching my head, acting like it wasn’t awkward)

5.  Your insecurities

I understand the need to be macho around your friends; we’re all guilty of that. There’s nothing like drinking a Guinness, chatting shit, and cussing up bad words. But as a man, you also go through difficult times. These issues may affect your demeanour and effectively, destabilize your relationship.

Maybe you can discuss your personal problems with your bredrin dem (male friends) but you won’t feel comfortable enough to delve into the most sensitive issue. But when you’re with a good woman, you can let down your guard and let her know what’s really bothering you… without feeling self-conscious.

Please note that you don’t have to be a big cry baby like Neymar Jr but that’s between you and your woman.

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