Nobody likes to argue but we all love to have great make-up sex. So, look on the bright side… if you have a man that is boring in bed, it’s an opportunity to transition from the bed… to the chair… to the balcony. Arguments are inevitable but, by all means, avoid doing things that will further dampen your mood and never do anything that you will live to regret (even if he is at fault).
1. Talk to a male friend
Of course your friend is going to be there to listen to your concerns. He may be genuine or he may have a hidden agenda. Most men don’t like to hear women go on and on about their problems but they will discuss your fragmented relationship for hours.
When you become emotional to the point that you begin to cry… it’s natural to want a hug. So, you rest your head on his chest, he begins to stroke your hair, you look up with teary eyes and gaze at his lips… You’re going to make a mistake when you’re this vulnerable.
2. Eat too much comfort food
F*ck the chocolates… f*ck the ice cream as well.
3. Tell your bestie (female) your side of the story
If you really want advice then you need to be objective. Be honest about the part you might have played in the argument and represent his case accurately. If you only give her your side of the story, she will provide you with an automated response “Ugh … What an asshole! …” (And then she will ramble on)
4. Delete stuff
When you know his phone number by heart… what’s the point of deleting it? When you have to re-add him to Facebook… how is this going to look? It’s cool to delete his text messages if you don’t want to be tempted to contact him first but try not to remove pictures that you won’t be able to recover.
If you ever get so angry that you want to throw away the teddy bear that he gave you for Valentine’s Day… search for your birth certificate as it will confirm that you are no longer 12 years old.
5. Be a third wheel
There is nothing wrong with going out and having a little fun. But don’t let your friend invite you out along with her man. You’re going to feel worse than Roberto Baggio when he missed the penalty in the 1994 World Cup finals.
6. Watch Romantic Films
It’s impossible to watch a really good romantic film and not be overwhelmed. Imagine if you saw The Notebook … Supermarkets within 5 miles would run out of Kleenex soft tissues.
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If you ever get so angry that you want to throw away the teddy bear that he gave you for Valentine’s Day… search for your birth certificate as it will confirm you that you are no longer 12 years old.
Hahaha, that line is so spot on!
lololol… thank you! …I try to be as accurate as possible 🙂
Yeah Daunte… unfortunately, you have men who will take advantage of the situation… so this is something that women really need to be mindful of.
Its great when women have true friends who are objective but you have to be sure that he is 100% genuine before you express certain things to him.
Ive always enjoy and look forward to ur post…keep up the good work
Thanks Roachelle… I appreciate the encouraging words 🙂
#1 is especially important. many male ‘friends’ will take advantage of the situation to either go out of their way to bash the BF or/and try to pass their place physically by sneaking in a kiss or further. you know he’s a true friend if he can actually be objective and see things from the guy’s perspective as well (assuming the guy wasn’t 100% at fault for the argument)
Yeah Daunte… i agree.
Unfortunately, you have men who will take advantage of the situation… so this is something that women really need to be mindful of.
Its great when women have true friends who are objective but you have to be 100 % sure that he is genuine before you express certain things to him
no comment…
but very constructive criticism…not able to speak on yahoo-its going crazy…
ummmm… wow females actually do all of this… wow… doing all of those it most certainly doesn’t make any sense… but heyy! i have something against you for the comfort food, its better having that than to let it out ALL emphasising on ALL the anger on the male… but you know what good article, show these females how ridiculous and too emotional they can be at times -_-
You forgot one important aspect of an argument: the silent treatment. You should know that pain that last longer than a sharp tongue. I know I’m guilty of it.
lool.. u are something else!