5 Annoying Things Men Need To Stop Doing


1.  Try to court a lady who’s in a relationship

You need to respect her relationship. Not every woman is comfortable with you sending messages like “We should do lunch” … especially if you work with her. If you were a stranger, she could just easily block you but due to circumstances… she’s forced to think of ways to subtly dismiss your intentions.

Just in case you didn’t know… when you send your inappropriate messages… there’s a 99.9% chance that she shows her boyfriend. If your reaction to this information is “SO”… then sooner or later… you’ll mess with a guy like Luis Suarez.

2.  Saying “Pssst”

Please give her a chance to walk through the mall without being disturbed with remarks like “Pssst” “Babes” “empress” “familay”. Surely, your mother raised you better than that… or your grandmother.

Perhaps one day, policy makers may address this issue. It’s is very irritating for a lady to walk by herself in developing countries. Some of these men are just too thirsty.

3.  Interrupt girl’s night

There are times when she may be hoping that a hot guy will come over, introduce himself and ask her to dance. Sometimes, however, she is actually enjoying a girl’s night out and not interested in your charm. If you sense that you’re interrupting her night… try to excuse yourself before her female friend has to come to her rescue by saying “this is my girlfriend”.

4.  Make an inappropriate comment (after being rejected)

We’ve all been rejected before… it happens. This does not mean you should take offense and say things like “What a b*tch”, “She only likes rich men”, “She’s not even cute”.

  1. Nag your female friend for her friend’s number

Okay… So, your female friend posted a picture of her cute friend. There is nothing wrong with asking for an introduction but don’t be a nagging bastard and expect her to give you her friend’s number… especially if you notice that she’s holding back.

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About Christopher Lai

Christopher Lai is an award winning Jamaican relationship blogger and author. His articles have appeared in The Huffington Post and Thought Catalog.
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12 Responses to 5 Annoying Things Men Need To Stop Doing

  1. Vanessa Hartley says:

    oh gosh… #2 and #4… oh the torture!

  2. Danielle says:

    ahahahaha Suarez lol lol

  3. Preach Brotha! PREACH!!!

  4. Elo says:

    You have no idea just how annoying some of these men can be. It’s why most Jamaican women have to deploy the following tactics.

    1. Road Face – serious expression no hint of a smile anywhere, screaming body language that says “Don’t talk to me”
    2. Pausing before walking in front of a group of men or worst yet a construction site – during the pause you take a moment to make sure your ‘road face’ is set or consider crossing the street.

    With all that being said, some men still don’t get it and we get harassed *sigh.

    My solution headphones, even if you are not listening to music. Most will back off but there are still a few who will wave and try to touch you.

    • Char Lesie says:

      Guuuurl! I can tell you the headphones thing don’t work. I got white headphones so you know they stand out, right. It’s obvious I’m wearing headphones and obviously listening to something and they STILL call to me. And even though I can hear them, I act like I cant, and they walk me down to tell me whatever it is they wanted to tell me from way back when.
      Conclusion: men will harass you whether you have a “F*ck off” sign on your forehead or not.

  5. Elo says:

    Reblogged this on Awesome Elo and commented:
    So very very true

  6. Char Lesie says:

    Jah know, I wish MEN would read this. I can’t even pick a truer truth out of this list, they are all on-point. Great job Chris!

  7. Ashli says:

    lol chris #3 definately applies to me and my frenz!!!! niggaz be mad annoying and needy

  8. chris lai's biggest fAn says:

    Omg! I had to comment. I’ve fallen victim to all of the above, men should simply learn to be more sensitive. I thoroughly enjoyed this article. I couldn’t agree more.

  9. ... says:

    No offense but this article makes you look like a whiner. You want the government to stop men from saying psst? That’s stupid and its never gonna happen.

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